Unworthiness

When discussing, I realised one issue which came rather naturally but struck me deeply. I had previously read about it and at the same time experienced it myself.

When a relationship that is serious fails, most of the times, It's due to one party having that sense of unworthiness that brings him down. Once, I did that to my friends, people I know. I couldn't perform since I felt I was unworthy, I gave up, Luckily she pushed me on and thus I still have her friendship.

Sometimes we feel unworthy and we give up all, like how repeated failings bring your determination to prove to that someone make you feel so depressed, in your thinking you decide, inaction is the way. It's this unworthy feeling that brings us down. No one would blame us for failing, only when we despair when we feel unworthy.