Friends

Just went to the Hope singapore that guofeng invited me to. sadly, I can barely recall some of the names of people I've been introduced to.

The topic was friends. I loved this part that put my problem into perspective. Why is it that I am always so depressed by friends?

When we have friends, we tend to bare ourselves to them. We have higher expectations of them. we expect them to do what we want them to do, we assume they know what we want them to do. But, friends can't read your mind, they don't so sometimes what you want them to do. they do otherwise. it's these times that make them irritating, and this part of time that endangers my relationship with my other friends.

It's not bad, worth my effort to go for that sermon, I've come to light why I always feel unhappy especially with friends. It's not about them, it's that I over expect. I myself commit the same mistake. I ought to be less sensitive.

Think next time, if your friends become so irritating, that could only mean that you have started to place them into ranks of friendship, and start to expect higher behaviour from them. That's definately a good thing.