anger

Recently, i had an accident where one of my friends had an incident happening to her; she had kind of been bullied by a kid she was supposed to tutor. what i could not understand was how she as a young adult of 19 years of age could allow herself to be bullied by one of around primary school age.
call it inconsiderate or what, i found it unbearable and i got angry for her. i adviced her what to do, and she being the victim, insisted not to do it for fear of some personal reasons, like the need for money. being even more fustrated, i immediately spoke what i considered the most outspoken, most confident and most logical reasoning i could give. what was that that made it possible for me to react in such a way? what happened to someone people always regarded as speaking in a manner too difficult to understand to speak in such a way?

i believe it was anger. we have always been told of how anger is bad. how anger makes us vulnerable since we become visibly enraged and unable to control carefully our expressions and thoughts at that particular time. that is why some couples when they engage in arguments, result in a very fierce scene, as no longer can they silently hold back their opinions of one another. this is also why it has always been percieved as bad,because of our inability to control our emotion, we tend to express the most ugly side of us.

here i am telling you guys my friend that it may not neccessarily be bad or evil.

Anger is the way to conquering your phobias and things you've put off for quite a certain amount of time.

now if you guys were daunted by your friends to go up to this cute chick or this handsome hunk, would you guys? but if you guys were alone, what about it? so where does anger come into play? you subconsciously become angered, and wanted to prove your friends wrong and hence things become done.

now if we could put it into more practical use, like let's say public speaking or finally going out with this guy/girl we really liked, would it be nice?

so let me say, let yourself burn with anger. with anger anything can.

for public speaking, be angry with yourself, be angry with the audience, why have you been afraid of them? what are they? let's go on the stage with anger, determined to prove how wrong they are, how easy it is!

what about this girl you like?
do you have enough anger to go forward?

what anger can give us is this sense of determination never before attained. it removes fears that normally stop us straight in our track. this is why things happen.

if your friends told you you were destined to be a failure and that you should never stay beside them since your results were never of good enough standard, where would you be?

most of us have 2 choices, first, we could laugh at it and do nothing, or we could become angry and will prove them wrong. that i'm sure is the best relation to you guys my friends.