Sunday, August 27, 2006

You can make everything a happy thing!

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Went for the 6km run today at the army half marathon, and boy, that 6km was not easy, I had to keep pushing myself, guess I’m darn weak now =P

Whenever something hits you, like say unfortunately, you lose your mother to an accident, how could you react?

First: be depressed forever till one day you wake up feeling that hey the feeling no longer lingers.

Second: you could

Bear to let it go

Let it go:

Forget about it:

Appreciate what your mum has done for you, how you loved her dearly as a mother, how helpful she was to you, how she sacrificed her love of other things for you.

Accept that she has passed on to the greater world, feel happy for her, promise that you will live better to make her proud.

Forget the hurt it caused on you and remind yourself of the love she had for you, and make it a good day!

It is not what situation you have been subjected to that affects your life.

You may be born to a wealthy family, but you may not be able to multiply the wealth but end up becoming even poorer.

You may be in a gay family but be subjected to a lot of despise by your friends but that becomes your burning desire to prove that you too can be successful!

You can have the worst scenario, but you can get what you want

You can have the best scenario but you still will not ever get what you want.

It is what that is inside us that causes us to judge what situation we have been through and if it’s good or bad.

There is no bad scenario, there are no good ones, and it’s just how you judge it.

To change your world, first change yourself.

7 comments:

ju said...

agreed! preception ad judgement is significant.

freddy said...

true! i once heard of this, if you girlfriend leaves you, you could choose to remain down forever or you could say like:" hey, man thanks! now i can open up my possibilities!"

just a shift of perception from negative to positive!

ju said...

yea mans. I will prefer the positive wan of course!

Anonymous said...

Hey dude!! Wow.. Reali admire ur positive attitude towards life!! Haha.. Continue to live happily n enjoy every minute of it yea.. Cheers!! :)

Sek said...

Awesome attitude man. When i feed u shit the next time, at least u will go: yea man, i am receiving some left over nutrients!

misszhuzhu said...

lol! good one, sek? haha hey but sometimes it is different saying it and doing it and it is really admirable for those who actually manage to achieve tt in their everyday life.

freddy said...

thanks man ben, are you benjamin han btw? anyway, haha it's nice to be positive, cause everything looks so much better, i don't deny i can still feel down, and sometimes i still do but it gets easier now, i can easily revert to the high mood... but just eating one packet of m&m's now? haha. anyway to sek, sure man, i'll prove it to you, i won't eat shit but i;ll try take shit and turn it positive no matter what =P

to wang, it's true.. somehow people who are positive are able to attract ppl to them, and i want to be attractive...=P

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